Friday, April 17, 2026

Five on Friday: Celebrating My Birthday Week


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"There are two great days in a person’s life – 
the day we are born and the day we discover why."
WILLIAM BARCLAY


My birthday has snuck up on me this year. Of course I knew it was coming but still the weeks have flown. And as I write this post on the eve of my birthday, it certainly doesn't seem possible to have reached the grand age of 69 years. My goodness, wasn't it just yesterday that I celebrated my 60th with a wee visit to Oxford, the city of 'dreaming spires' and the home of my soul.


- One -
We have not been best pleased with the weather this week. It's not supposed to be this wintry anymore, we say with hands on our hips. We get a warmish day here and there, then we think, okay, now spring is here. My deep purple crocuses were coming up all sweet and innocent in the sun warming days. And then yet another blast of winter—snow, freezing temperatures, and wind—settles for a few more days. As I mentioned in a note to a dear friend, a lesson can be gleaned from these little brave souls of nature. I looked out my study window and saw the green shoots standing sturdily amidst the snow. They knew to just wait it out. (I love winter, but on my birthday, I'd much prefer pussy willows and spring bulbs.)

 
- Two -
I believe that no matter what condition you are
in when someone close to your heart remembers
your birthday and wishes you a happy birthday,
you feel happy.
A. Singla

It's true. I feel happy. My mail box has been filling
with birthday cards and delightful surprises all week.
Cards from friends near and far. I am well blessed to
 have such lovely people in my life.


- Three -
I've been indulging in a little BritBox watching. I had taken advantage of a 7-day free trial through Prime to watch a series with David Suchet travelling where Agatha Christie once travelled. With the free week nearly up, I went to cancel, except they offered me three months for $2.75/mo instead of the usual $10.99/mo. Well, how can a person refuse such a bargain. My first film has been to watch Persuasion with Amanda Root as Anne Elliot and Ciarán Hinds as Captain Wentworth. There are none finer, in my books, than these two to portray one of my favourite Jane Austen novels.


- Four -
A dozen gorgeous red and pink roses
from my sweetheart. He really is a sweetheart!


- Five -
 A collection of 'eldering' birthday quotes that lift my spirits this week.

"Anyone who keeps the ability to see
beauty never grows old."
Franz Kafka

"All we have to decide is what to do
with the time that is given us."
J.R.R. Tolkien

"With long life will I satisfy [you]
and show [you] my salvation."
from Psalm 91 (NIV)

"[You] will still bear fruit in old age,
[you] will stay fresh and green."
from Psalm 92:14 (NIV)

   
I opened today's post with those words attributed to William Barclay. And as I close, I want to muse a moment on them. At age 69, I hope after all these years I have figured out why I was born.

I believe God made me for a purpose.
He made me fast. And when I run I feel his pleasure.
Eric Liddell, in the movie Chariots of Fire

(I have often thought of those words in relation
to my own life, especially to my writing life. He made
me good with words, and when I write I feel his pleasure.)

*

He has good works for me to do.
- to love him and to love my neighbour.
- to live in gratitude and thankfulness.
- to live in the beauty of kindness, creativity,
and companionship.


On the eve of my birthday, as I sat at my desk writing this post, the grey skies had cleared. And the setting sun filled my room with that soft, gold light... filling my soul with joy. In my heart, at least, Spring had arrived.



Wishing you a beautiful week ahead,
Brenda
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Saturday, April 04, 2026

Six on Saturday: This and That




"Lord, give me an open heart to find You everywhere,
to glimpse the heaven enfolded in a bud, and
experience eternity in the smallest act of love."
MOTHER TERESA


We had our family gathering yesterday for the Easter weekend. Ham and scalloped potatoes are often a favourite item on the menu when it comes to the family celebration around the table. Chocolate eggs never go amiss either. We enjoyed a little of everything on the buffet. It was all delicious.

Here are a few things I've gathered this week that I hope you might enjoy...


One
Something about me

I am a Lover of God, Seeker of Beauty, Word Artist 

I live in Alberta, Canada

I receive great pleasure in writing and blogging, giving
gifts, pottering, flowers in gardens and bouquets, walks in
nature. I love sunny winter days and summery twilight
evenings, books, and conversations over coffee.

I value compassion, kindness, consideration for others,
integrity, autonomy, laughter, beauty, and solitude.

I don't consider myself as a 'leader' out in front but more
of a come-alongside helper of others. 


Two
From Facebook

Someone asked the question of her female readers:

"What do you find is the most non-sexual turn-on in a man?"

My response:
A sense of humour. Thoughtful of others.
Wearing a crisp white shirt with sleeves rolled
up over tanned forearms. 


Three
Books read more than twice

I've a long, long list of books I've read more than twice. Here is a excerpt:

A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles
A Severe Mercy by Sheldon Vanauken
Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Heaven, The Heart's Deepest Longing by Peter Kreeft
Keeping the Feast by Paula Butterini

Life of the Beloved by Henri J.M. Nouwen
Living a Beautiful Life by Alexandra Stoddard
Martha's Vineyard, An Isle of Dreams by Susan Branch
Mitford novels (the whole series) by Jan Karon
Once Upon A Wardrobe by Patti Callahan
Persuasion by Jane Austen

The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgomery
The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis
The Rose Code by Kate Quinn
The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett
The Scent of Water by Elizabeth Goudge
The School of Essential Ingredients by Erica Bauermeister
Winter Solstice by Rosamunde Pilcher


Four
Movies watched at least
a half dozen times

A handful of favourites:

84, Charing Cross Road
Bertram's Hotel (Miss Marple)
Chariots of Fire
Enchanted April
Home Alone

Miss Potter
Out of Africa
Planes, Trains and Automobiles
Pride and Prejudice (1995 miniseries)
Persuasion (1995 version)
Sense and Sensibility (1995 version)
Shall We Dance? (with Richard Gere)
The Bishop's Wife (with Cary Grant)
The Empire Strikes Back (Star Wars)
The Shell Seekers
You've Got Mail


Five
Little delights this week

Unexpected parcels and cards from friends in the mail

Two new China mugs in spring floral greens
(found at HomeSense)

That our tax accountant noticed the scent I was wearing.
He mentioned he liked to catch a nice fragrance wafting
in the air. I was wearing "Rose" by L'Occitane.

Chatting with strangers in the grocery line and whilst
waiting in the lab with my mom

Rewatching two favourite old movies after busy days:
Evil Under the Sun (Peter Ustinov and Maggie Smith always
make me laugh in this Agatha Christie mystery);
and Miss Potter with Renée Zellweger (I sigh with
emotions fully satisfied every time I watch this one).

The gift of English Breakfast Tea in a 
Beatrix Potter "Peter Rabbit" tin (perfect
timing as it arrived after watching Miss Potter).


Six
A writing thought
A fellow writer wrote how she had once joined a writing group where, as it turned out, they focused on their tragic life situations as writing fodder. She eventually left the group as she felt she didn't fit; she hadn't experienced such terrible and sad family circumstances. She certainly understood, as do I, that writing about these situations may be their way of processing their experiences, healing from them, and helping others from what they've learned.

As for her and myself, I had a loving family upbringing, and I hadn't experienced such terrifying, tragic life events. Having often felt "too blessed" with a gentler, more pleasant unfolding of my life, being grateful that I didn't have to endure the hardships so many others do, I was glad I eventually came to see that God can use all our stories—the good and beautiful along with the horrid and the ugly. So here I continue to write on It's A Beautiful Life. Not ignoring the horrors going on out there, they are very much on my heart, but writing about the ordinary, small things of grace and pleasantness that continue to fill our world with beauty and hope. 



Wishing you a beautiful day, and if you watch and celebrate,
Happy Easter Weekend.
Brenda

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