Friday, March 20, 2026

An Essay: A Kaleidoscope of Creativity




"The kaleidoscope of quiet creativity,
in a variety of shape, colour, and focus,
buoyed my spirits and kept me sane. My hands
stayed busy, and my mind stayed on Him."
BRENDA LEYLAND 


Happy first day of Spring! In true Spring fashion, it's raining here and we are happy about that. There are puddles and rivulets gurgling down the street. We've seen the odd 'early bird' pairs of ducks and Canada Geese flying overhead towards the pond. There's no sign of full flocks arriving just yet. It's a tad early with ponds and lakes around here still thawing. Life for us is less hectic these days, and we're glad to be getting back to our writing here on the blog. I've missed you all. Thank you to everyone who came by and left notes on recent posts - although I didn't respond to them at the time, please know I appreciated each one, and you. 
 
Today I am excited to share with you an essay I wrote for the anthology Creativity & Chaos, Artistic Endeavours for Trying Timespublished by InScribe Press in 2024. I wrote the piece following the global pandemic (which now seems a lifetime ago). I hope you enjoy my reflections from that season.

A Kaleidoscope of Creativity
by Brenda Leyland

Who could even think about artistic pursuits at such a time? All thought of creativity vanished as we heard alarming news of an unknown virus fast-tracking its way across the continents. Seismic shockwaves threatened the fabric of our societies, our homes, and our very lives. Described as the greatest peacetime crisis of our lifetime, millions faced devastation. We stayed glued to our televisions, smartphones, and computers, desperate to learn what was this hellish thing.

At home, our personal world shrank—it came to a standstill. My husband and I, both retired, quarantined inside our own four walls, minds whirling with how to figure out what it meant to go out only for essentials, to mask up, social distance, and stick to one’s cohort group. All to stay safe in a world that felt unsafe and scary. It didn’t seem quite appropriate to carry on with business as usual; for many, there was no business to carry on with. For me, I asked myself how I could continue writing on my blog about living a beautiful life amid such circumstances.

Still, hope is that feathered thing that rises on a breath of air. And glimpses of it began shimmering out of the darkness. In our home, it happened to be the spring bulbs we planted in pots months earlier. No one could have imagined just how priceless those little brown globes of promise would become. The world had shut down around us, but inside our house it was a veritable greenhouse of bulbs sprouting and blooming in shades of spring daffodils, tulips, hyacinth, and irises. My troubled thoughts lightened. My camera took on new significance as it captured shades of beauty from every angle at every stage. Those harbingers of spring soon appeared on my blog and social media, their message to the world: Look at us. Take hope, dear friends, take hope.

Still super-glued to my smartphone for the latest news, there was something else going on out there, something most interesting. People were converging on social media platforms like I’d never seen before. Creatives began saying, we can’t do our normal things, we’re stuck in our homes, what can we do to keep occupied and sane? How can we support each other during these ghastly days?

Creativity and creative expression blossomed and exploded. Artists, writers, and performers took to social media, creating community despite the isolation. Opera divas sang from their balconies. Pianists performed spontaneous concerts in their homes [and posted them online]. Artists painted. One actor began reciting Shakespeare’s sonnets—all 154 of them in as many days. And actress, Jennifer Ehle, with her oh-so-familiar Elizabeth Bennet voice (1995 film), started reading Pride and Prejudice to the delight of her followers on Instagram.

Artistic energy radiated through cyberspace. And to our huge surprise, people everywhere were joining in. Children hung their art from their living room windows. Folks stocked up on flour and yeast, turning their kitchens into centres of doughy creativity. People offered their ‘regular life’ skills on YouTube videos and showed us how to exercise in place, cut our own hair, play the guitar, paint, and quilt. You name it, they showed us how to create it at home. At first, I was content enough to be an observer appreciating their many efforts. Soon I longed to join in—I wanted to be a part of this astounding phenomenon. Pandemic or not, my heart still pulsed with the desire to write about life's beautiful moments. People more than ever needed some respite, a few moments that made them feel normal in an abnormal time. I wanted to offer them something that buoyed the spirits and provided a hint of beauty so that, once heartened, they could carry on.

So, what could I offer? Well, I could blog more often, every day for a season, instead of weekly. I had books. I could press my books into service and write about my favourites. You know how it is when you visit friends in their homes, you hanker to peek at their bookshelves. Since readers couldn’t come to my house, I brought the books to my readers. I chose volumes that would inspire, give comfort, and a sense of well-being. It was especially meaningful to find comments from readers who were so glad I was still there, writing, despite the strange times. My purpose was confirmed. The horrid sense of isolation faded. I felt connected—my online community was real. Something lovely and unexpected came out of this book series. The author of a favourite book I had written about got in touch with me all the way from The Netherlands. Daniel Blajan had authored a delightful volume twenty-five years earlier, and during Covid lockdowns, he found my blog post about it and emailed me. We enjoyed a small flurry of emails back and forth across the Atlantic, and then one day his charming real mail letter arrived in the post with a personalized autograph. It’s now safely tucked inside my copy of Foxgloves & Hedgehog Days, Secrets in a Country Garden.

Summer came and our flower garden, like the tulips earlier, gave us infinite joy and beauty during those stay-at-home days. My iPhone camera captured hundreds of floral poses, and soon many of them were being published on my blog and social media. I designed several photo books, including one that featured my mom’s gorgeous Peace Rose, which I gave to her on her socially distanced 85th birthday. Another album, also for my mom, showcased her family, including pets, scattered across the provinces, to document our Covid-restricted first year. It included visits out in parking lots, family birthday cakes enjoyed virtually, and happy but heart-sad pictures of my dear niece’s wedding which her entire family could attend only via Zoom.

Home, usually a peaceful place, became a true sanctuary. I no longer felt the restrictions as I had at first. I found purpose, and despite all, continued to catch glimpses of heaven in unexpected places, right in my own house and neighbourhood. The simpler, slower pace of my days gave me other opportunities to be more reflective. I engaged in several smaller creative pursuits, such as sorting through old scrapbooks from my school days and writing some of those stories that still wanted to be told. I picked up my love of writing old-fashioned letters the snail mail way and stocked up on boxes of artsy greeting cards (thanks to Amazon’s delivery service). Along with my handwritten notes, I’d tuck in small surprises: sachets of tea, quotes, stickers, blank postcards, anything fun that snugged inside a card-size envelope. The real thrill for me was imagining a friend’s face when she discovered real mail waiting for her in the mailbox.

Out of these tumultuous times, came beautiful things. My mind a creative blank, having gone into hiding at the outset, was set free when I poured myself into something other than fretfulness and anxiety. The kaleidoscope of quiet creativity, in a variety of shape, colour, and focus, buoyed my spirits and kept me sane. My hands kept busy, and my mind stayed on Him. I will never forget the world’s ingenious creative response to this terrible season. And I am so grateful to have been a tiny part of this luminous world-wide creativity during a global pandemic.🙟

 

Wishing you a beautiful day,
Brenda

Photo credits:
Brenda Leyland @ It's A Beautiful Life

My Blogging Schedule:
I post on Fridays


Friday, March 13, 2026

From the Archives: First Impressions


Image by Terri Cnudde from Pixabay

From the Archives is a series where I revisit old posts and essays from my writing archives. I'm also cleaning up old files. Some posts are so outdated they are easily discarded. Some pieces still have relevance, while others are just fun to look back on. I'm hoping this turns out to be an entertaining series - a monthly segment here on the blog.
Here is one short post I wrote back in 2012 on a blog called Perfectly Pink. 

First Impressions

“Hair style is the final tip-off whether or not
a woman really knows herself.”
Hubert De Givenchy, Vogue (July 1985)

Spring is in the air. You’ve just had a new makeover and your face looks fab. Maybe you’ve added a couple pieces to your wardrobe. And now your hair style needs a serious update. Brenda Kinsel, author of several books including 40 over 40: 40 Things Every Woman Over 40 Needs to Know About Getting Dressed, (1999) shared this interesting hair tip:
“Go to a new hair designer looking your best self. Introduce yourself to the hairdresser fully clothed the first time, before they get you into a smock. Let the hairdresser see who you are. Here’s a place where first impressions will really help ensure that you get the cut that works with your lifestyle and taste.”
That was an aha moment for me (for I was all too familiar with leaving hair salons disappointed). Years earlier, not related to my hair, as a young woman I came to the city to find a job. It was the late 1970s, and I decided to use a temp agency, hoping this would get my foot in the door to a nice place in the downtown area. I didn’t think to dress up for this initial interview with the agency—after all it wasn’t a potential employer who'd be seeing me. But I soon began to wonder why the temp jobs I kept getting were never in those plushy downtown offices, but in more casual, industrial kind of places. It wasn’t until much later that it finally dawned on me: the agency's first impression of me was that I was a casual 'pants' kind of girl, and so the jobs they sent me to were to the more casual kind of sites. (After that, I did my best to look the part whenever I went for an interview. And things improved, I'm happy to report.)

It’s true, first impressions matter...at job interviews, and now we learn even at hair salons. If you haven’t been getting the style you want, maybe you’re giving them the wrong impression of who you are in ‘real’ life.

I never really thought about what I wore or how my hair looked when I arrived at a salon; after all, they were going to wash my hair, cut it, and style it all anyway. But if they only see me in a way that doesn't reflect my most authentic self, in my relaxed 'at home' stance rather than in my 'how I want to present myself to the world', no wonder a person can walk away disappointed.

That first impression turns out to be the unconscious standard people will refer to forever after. So it's something to keep in mind for all our first encounters... not just in hair salons.

Here’s to living your life more beautifully... more truly you everywhere you go!




Wishing you a beautiful weekend,
Brenda
My Blogging Schedule:
I post on Fridays


Wednesday, March 11, 2026

Guest Blogging Elsewhere: The Writing Advice I Needed


Image by Ylanite Koppens from Pixabay


I have a new blog post up on InScribe, my writers' fellowship blog. This month we are chatting about the best writing advice we've ever received. You can find what I share by clicking on the link HERE.
I will be back here on Friday... 
 ❦

Wishing you a beautiful day,
Brenda
My Blogging Schedule:
I post on Fridays



Friday, March 06, 2026

Happy March: Five on Friday


Image by Christina Zetterberg from Pixabay


"Everything is brimming with possibility. Everything is pointing
forward to what is to come. And isn't that the way with
spring? It feels sweeter even than the highest summer day
because it arrives while winter still holds the earth."
ROB COWEN
from Spring Anthology (Melissa Harrison)



Image by Joanna from Pixabay

TODAY

One. Outside my window
We've had a mix of winter and spring over the last few weeks.
As I write this paragraph, it's snowy, cold, windy, and hazy.
A good day to hibernate indoors.

Oh...oh... the sun came out and warmed the air.
Rivulets begin to trickle down the street.
And suddenly it feels like maybe spring is really
on its way. A big sigh of relief.

Wait...wait...wait...

Oh dear, it's snowing again, now with
a force behind the shreds of cotton flakes.

It's March in Alberta.


Two. Rose Postcard Giveaway
My apologies. 
I made this announcement in my February 6th blog post
with names to be drawn on February 13th.
Then I totally forgot about it with other needful
things vying for my attention.

I went back to the comments section on that post and
on my FB page. Collected the names into the proverbial
hat. Pulled out two (as I said I would).
We have two winners!

A big congratulations to:

Tamara Willems
&
Sharon Goemaere


Three.  Inside my head
"Do you ever listen to a song and remember exactly
what life was like when you first heard it?"
Asked someone online.

Oh yes, indeed!

There I am, about six or seven years old, sitting on
the back step on a warm summer afternoon with my
little sister and older beloved cousin, our ears
attuned to Larry's little transistor radio as a new
band sings, "We all live in a yellow submarine,
a yellow submarine, a yellow submarine..."

We fell in love with the Beatles. And maybe
drove our mom crazy singing the song over and over.
Sweet and delightful memory of a time long ago.
 

Four. On my lap
These days, whenever I have a chance, I disappear into
the stories inside my books. It helps me escape from what's
going on in my own world, not to mention what's
happening in the world at large.

I recently read and enjoyed these novels:

The Mystery Guest by Nita Prose
(mystery, sequel to The Maid)
Molly the maid finds herself in the middle of
another murder at the posh hotel where she works.

The Bookbinder by Pip Williams
(during WWI)
A young woman, who has worked in the bookbindery
in Oxford since she was 14, longs to go to the Ladies
College across the street. 

Goodnight from London by Jennifer Robson
(WWII novel)
A young female journalist crosses the Atlantic Ocean from
America to the UK near the beginning of WWII to write
for two magazines about the war from London. Happily
there is a bit of romance tangled in the threads.

84, Charing Cross Road by Helen Hanff
(biography in letters)
A favourite book that I love to read on occasion. It's the
correspondence between a woman living in NYC
with a bookstore employee on 84 Charing Cross Road.
Having watched the movie numerous times, I love reading
the book - I hear and see the actors in my head.
A lovely book in which to escape.

The Limestone Manor by Jonny Thompson
(cozy mystery by Canadian author)
I wasn't familiar with this author, but his work started showing
up on my FB feeds. His 2-3 books have good reviews.
He writes a great little story about a group of seniors living
in St. Mary's, Ontario, who find themselves suddenly aware of
something nasty about to happen in their small town.
The characters are eccentric. I was delighted by the story. 
Not so much of a nailbiter that you can't relax
and let them solve the mystery.

I'm currently immersed in Hilary Mantel's
award-winning Wolf Hall. Set in the early 1500s
during Henry VIII's era. He sure is eager to get rid of
his wife Katherine and marry Anne Boleyn.
Don't do it, Anne!
     

Five. A wedding
My beautiful niece is getting married this summer.
We are excited. Ever since I got married years ago,
I always had a dream that one day I would pass along to
one of my nieces my beautiful pair of handmade earrings
(made by a dear friend especially for my wedding).



On that note, I'm wishing you a beautiful day,
Brenda

My Blogging Schedule:
I post on Fridays







Friday, February 13, 2026

Five on Friday: Small Moments




"Celebrate small victories."
UNKNOWN


Life has turned busy and suddenly it's Friday. But I wanted to share some small moments that have brought cheer and delight this week to my heart. I hope you will enjoy my tiny offerings today.


One. Clementines
 
We've been eating clementines imported all the way from Spain.
What a delicious treat. We savour every thick-skinned, juicy fruit—
enjoying the scent of citrus zest on our fingers as we peel them.


Two. At the deli counter

I stopped the other day at the deli counter to pick up
some flatbread pizzas and sandwiches. An older fellow
was also scouting the display, probably for his own lunch.
We caught eyes. I spied what I wanted and reached around
to the back of the cooler, conspiratorially saying to him, "I
always take from the back as they are the freshest."
He nodded.
It was almost as if he'd tapped his finger on the side
of his nose - with that congenial secret understanding.
It left a warm feeling of connection.


Three. A tiny pile of new books

Three new books arrived at my house this week.
Their titles and descriptions look so inviting
(I have not read them yet):

 Seaview House
by Elizabeth Fair (novel, 1955)
(described as a comedy of domestic life)
A friend has read this author and really enjoyed her books.

Your Second Life Begins When You
Realize You Only Have One Life
by Raphaëlle Giordano (novel, 2018)
(one woman's quest to cure her "routinitis")
I thought I could use that kind of cure 😉. 

Peril at End House
by Agatha Christie (1932)
(Poirot mystery)
One can never go wrong with a Christie mystery.


Four. Twinkle lights

I never got around to adding twinkle lights around my
bookcase over the Christmas season—life was too busy then.
But I saw twinkle lights at Michaels the other day and
thought it's never too late to cheer up a dark corner.
Spring is still a long way off.


Five. From a novel I'm reading

"May God make safety your companion."
The English Patient
by Michael Ondaatje

Madox is bidding farewell to his colleague as they
part company after years of working together in the
Libyan Desert in North Africa. It's at the start of
World War II and everything is changing.



That's all for today. Please note I will be away for the next couple of Fridays. We are fine but we're tending to needful things in our circle of loved ones. Tomorrow is Valentine's Day. I hope you will feel the love and will have a taste of something sweet to celebrate.


Heart hugs and wishes for a beautiful day,
Brenda
Photo credits:
(Top)Image by No_Name13 from Pixabay
(Twinkle lights)Brenda Leyland @ It's A Beautiful Life

My Blogging Schedule:
I post on Fridays