"If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself,
tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches;
for to the creator there is no poverty and no poor indifferent place."
RAINER MARIA RILKE, Letters to a Young Poet
This quote has been part of my life for decades, having pondered it off and on for years now. They were words that leapt off the page the first time I read them, the gentle chiding a spur to my heart when my daily life felt poor, colourless, and 'same old, same old'. I'd reread the words to remind myself to quit feeling sorry for myself. To be poet enough and to use that spark of imagination within to call forth life's riches in my own, very ordinary life. I learned to pay attention. I learned to recognize and be in awe when something lovely startled my senses. I knew I wanted more of these rich moments to colour my life with beauty.
How often I'd remind myself, too, of the ancient text I once memorized, "This is the day the Lord hath made, I will rejoice and be glad in it." Especially on those mornings when I wanted to roll over and pull the covers back over me. Instead, I'd pull myself out of bed with the thought, today I will wake up with vitality and good humour. I especially needed the reminder about getting on with good humour, me not being a morning person at the time. I also remembered those lovely lines I learned from the New Testament, "...whatever is true, whatever is honourable, whatever is lovely and of good report, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on these things".
They became the benchmark of how I wanted to live and work and love—and eventually write. The joy always came, and still comes when I remember to look around....
- To search for something, however tiny, on which my eyes can delight. So often it's right there in front of me, outside my window or front step, I don't even have to fly to Paris to catch the joy. Sometimes it's a gorgeous line in a book I'm reading that stands out. Sometimes the sighting of a single yellow leaf from a still green tree drifting to the ground can do it. So can catching the sound of children laughing and screaming in the nearby park as the sun starts to set. Or marveling at the lemon-hued marigolds still so bright in the flower beds and cawing flocks of crows settling and resettling in woodsy copses nearby at dusk.
- To listen to music, music that is as familiar and sweet as the voice of a dear loved one—it can be a beloved old hymn that floats up with its comforting words, or a little Mozart whose music always makes me feel happy. The strains of theme music from a favourite old movie like the 1995 film Sense and Sensibility which makes me feel at peace, as comforting and comfortable as a favourite pair of old slippers.
- To sit at my desk and dream up something nice I can do for someone. I feel the thrill deep inside when I plan something spontaneous, immediate; something not too complicated, like a pretty card with a note sent in the mail, to surprise and lift someone's day.
- To meet neighbours out for a walk and stand on the driveway having a wee chat in the warm sunshine as the crisp air fans our faces. Chattering, laughing, teasing—it makes me think that I'm living inside one of those delightful scenes from a Rosamunde Pilcher novel set in the English countryside.
How often the beauty is right here in front of us. I didn't really know back then until I read Rilke's quotation that I had within me the creative ability to call forth the richness in my own daily life. It makes me so grateful for those words all those years ago. They helped shape my life. I certainly hope one day I'll be able to tell Mr. Rilke how much his writings meant to me. How they helped a young woman learn to rise above the circumstances and begin to call forth her beautiful life.
"Most people do not know at all how beautiful
the world is, and how much magnificence is revealed in
the tiniest things, in some flower, in a stone,
in tree bark, or in a birch leaf."
RAINER MARIA RILKE, from Letters on Life
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Before I close, I want to tell you that next Friday I'll be having a BOOK GIVEAWAY for two copies of the new anthology published by InScribe Press: Creativity & Chaos: Artistic Endeavours for Trying Times. Through inspiring stories, poems, essays, even crafts, the contributing authors share how they found creative ways to cope during their own trying times. Being on the editorial team, I had the opportunity to read the pieces before publication, and I can tell you, this book is one you'll want to read. You'll find comfort, encouragement, and hope on its pages. I'm so honoured and delighted to have a piece I wrote included—it's a personal essay entitled "A Kaleidoscope of Creativity (during a global pandemic)". In a recent interview, I shared what inspired me to write the piece and a little of my writing journey generally; if you haven't seen it, you can find the video HERE.
At the time of this writing, Amazon is offering the Kindle version for $0.99 CDN. After September 28th, paperback copies also will be available to order. So, next Friday, do come back and ENTER YOUR NAME IN THE DRAW for a chance to win one of two copies, autographed by Yours Truly.
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Wishing you a beautiful weekend and Happy Autumn,
Brenda
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Autographed by Yours Truly!! That is a treasure! I'll be back next week for that. :)
ReplyDeleteBrenda, this is one of your most beautiful posts. I will read it again and again. Bookended by those two inspirational quotes by Rilke (which are now in my quote book), your words brought such joy, and I realized in the middle of reading that I was smiling as I read. So so lovely. Thank you! My heart is full.
Your kind words make my heart full, Joy! We'll be able to smile the rest of the day... thank you!
DeleteThis is such a lovely post, Brenda. Those Rilke quotes are going into my quote collection. Your words "How often the beauty is right here in front of us" are so true. Looking for, and finding the beauty in simple things enriches life.
ReplyDeleteI have to laugh at you quoting "This is the day that the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it" for more often than not those are the words in my mind as I awake in the morning. The other ones are "In the morning, Lord, I present my requests before you and I wait in expectation."
I missed pre-ordering the book and will be back to put my name in the hat. I definitely want to read it.
Thank you, Lorrie. I love the other quote you mention, "In the morning, Lord, I present my requests before you and I wait in expectation." A good thought for first thing in the morning.
DeleteLove the Rilke quotes! So much of how we experience life depends on the lens we choose to view it through. Thank you for all you do to help us see beauty in every extraordinary ordinary moment.
ReplyDeleteI do love those quotes, Linda. So often they have helped me to remember what I want to focus on and think about. Appreciate your kind note! xo
DeleteBrenda, once again you have swept me away with your beautifully written post. It is extraordinary how you seem to focus on something that has become important in my life.
ReplyDelete'To search for something, however tiny on which my eyes can delight'. is such an evocative guide to life. It is the tiny things, the butterfly on my Dahlias, the bee buzzing in the garden, the ray of sunlight on a window pane.....these are the delights. On a 'low' day I deliberately go outside and stand, breathing deeply and searching for those little things to marvel at.
Thank you for a beautiful post. I'm sure the book giveaway is not for UK, but it does look so interesting.
Thank you, Barbara, your words are a delight. How grateful I am that on those 'low' days we can step outside, stand, and breathe deeply, knowing that there will be something to lift and comfort our souls. // You are most welcome to join in the giveaway, UK addresses are included. :) xo
DeleteAgain, Brenda, you have spoken the Lord's own words to me. Through you, He is reminding me that the day is only as dull and grey as I allow it to be through thanklessness. I'm feeling so down today as my college-going children have left for their fall semesters, taking with them much of the cheer and light which they had filled the house with for some weeks. Be that as it may, as Rilke says, if I care to look carefully for God's hope, I am bound to meet with it.
ReplyDeleteSo, look for it I must for that is surely God's will for me. Thank you for reminding me again.
My heart marvels and is happy that you found words in this post to encourage your own heart. Know that your words here lift me up in response. Thank you, Caitlynne Grace.
DeleteAnother inspiring post, Brenda. You have such a beautiful way with written words. I will look for the book on Amazon when it is out. Also... I enjoyed watching the video interview. How fun to hear your actual voice after reading your words here.
ReplyDeleteI'm tickled that you enjoyed the video, Becki. Thank you for your note. :)
DeleteThis is so inspiring. I love the little things you describe that can bring us joy regardless of our circumstances. I also watched the video. You did a wonderful job!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mrs. White. You make me smile. :)
DeleteDear Brenda, We need more uplifting posts like yours and the book you edited to balance the scales of all the negativity being published and broadcast! Thank you for your part in bringing more light into our lives. ❤️Cathy
ReplyDeleteThank so much, Cathy, for your lovely comment. :)
DeleteI will write the quote about the beautiful things in my journal today. I find such joy in the small things I encounter on my hikes! Have a beautiful day sweet lady!
ReplyDeleteYour hikes are a perfect way to catch the delight of small - and large - things. Thanks for your note, Diane.
DeleteBrenda, I love the Rilke quote and how your post aligns with a shift in my thinking that has been taking place over the past couple of years. Committing my gratitudes to the page every morning and seeking life's quiet pleasures and "thrills" have made me live more fully into my own life. The "thrill" part comes from an old John Mellencamp song, Jack and Diane, whose refrain repeats "life goes on, long after the thrill of living is gone." I refuse to give up the thrill and I know you do too!
ReplyDeleteLauren, How lovely to see you. Thank you for your note. Oh yes, I agree, let's be women who refuse to give up on the thrills of life. There are still so many to enjoy.
DeleteSuch a wonderful practice . . . to "call forth riches" and to live each day as one "that the Lord has made." That is good advice for a hard season, but is equally good for a gentle one.
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