Friday, October 24, 2025

A Little Small Talk




"No matter what's going on in the world, have your tea,
make your list, plan your meals, fold the laundry, bake
something for the family, and be a light for your home."
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Today I feel a little like Jane Austen when she once wrote, "I do not know what is the matter with me today, but I cannot write . . . fortunately I have nothing very particular to say."

As I sat and 'proverbially' chewed the end of my pencil, I thought of one thing I could mention. I bought an autumn-themed grocery store bouquet for our dining room table last week. When the flowers started fading, I placed the above sprig of bronze-golden chrysanthemums into a smaller vase. And set it on the coffee table in our living room. This morning while we were enjoying our coffees the sun suddenly brightened and beams fell on the flower petals 'just so'. Making an ordinary spray look most glorious as if it were posing for an artist's paint and palette. I love how my photo turned out.

I could also tell you about the tasty Butternut Squash Soup I made for supper last night. Served it with hot buttered toast. Yum! The ingredients were simple: a package of already-cubed squash (approx. 4-6 cups), a chopped onion, a chopped MacIntosh apple, 2 cloves of garlic diced, a fresh sage leaf chopped into teeny pieces, a sprig of fresh thyme, and a teaspoon of diced ginger. I sautéed everything first for about 10 minutes, then added enough broth (I used chicken) to cover the ingredients, simmering until everything was soft. A quick whirl in the food processor. A sprinkle of salt & pepper to taste. That's it. A simple, easy meal.

When you don't know what else to chat about, there is always the weather. So, how has it been in your corner of the world? We've had a lovely few days. Sunny, blue skies with lots of clouds drifting in and out. Windy. It's definitely late autumn now. Many trees stand like skeletons against the sky. Surely they exude something more romantic than skeletons but it's the image that popped up first. Probably because Hallowe'en decorations are everywhere now.

Speaking of Hallowe'en, do you get many kids for treats at your door? We get maybe 30 or 40. I was thinking about what to hand out this year. I handed out cookie packs last year, potato chips the year before, and chocolate bars the one before that. What about packages of hot chocolate or hot apple cider along with cookies? If you were a trick or treater, would that interest you? What was/is your favourite treat at Hallowe'en? I used to love molasses kisses and old-fashioned popcorn balls. It's been decades since I have eaten either - they were so yummy. 

Do you remember a favourite costume you wore? We'd have our party at school and go all dressed up for the day. It was so exciting to dream about what costume we'd wear. I wasn't very old, maybe Grade 2 or 3, when Mom sewed me a nurses uniform from white crepe paper along with a cute nurses cap to match. I think my favourite was the princess outfit she put together from her old pretty dresses, maybe from the soft chiffon bridesmaid dress, that were in the dress up box.

I think I will find myself in the mood for Agatha Christie's Poirot mystery, Halloween Party. And if I can find it on YouTube, I wouldn't mind watching that old Cary Grant movie Arsenic and Old Lace. That was such a great old movie - just plain silly and fun.

Two delightful books I am enjoying right now are The Country Commonplace Book by Miranda Mills and A Year Unfolding, A printmaker's view by Angela Harding. Both include seasonal sections that help create the right ambiance for this time of year.  

I do wonder if Miss Austen found on that day she had nothing particular to say, once she got started, there were all kinds of bits and pieces that became entertaining fodder in her letters. Speaking of Jane, I recently finished Lucy Worsley's autobiography Jane Austen at Home. It was a really good read. Lucy had some wonderful insights and ideas about this famous lady, her life, and the times she lived in.

Look at that, a few paragraphs done, and I have a blog post nearly finished. On that note, I shall bid you a pleasant goodbye.


Wishing you grace for the week ahead, and may
there be beauty in its many details,
Brenda

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Brenda Leyland @ It's A Beautiful Life

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18 comments:

  1. Angela Hardings prints are very lovely.

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  2. What a satisfying and sustaining little small talk. The only costume I remember wearing to school as a girl was a little Dutch girl, complete with wooden shoes. My mom made me one of those white caps with the wings in front, and I carried the little Dutch doll my aunt had brought back for me from Holland. Wow! Hadn't remembered that in years!

    We've only lived out here in the country for two Hallowe'ens so far, and we get a group of about 7. Our neighbour's grandkids and their friends. They all show up in a big clump and that's it for the night.

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    1. Joy, it feels like you've been out in the country for so much longer already, yet it's only been two Hallowe'ens so far! Your little Dutch girl costume from your childhood sounds delightful.

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  3. Brenda...you may not have thought you had anything to write but surprise you did! Your photo of the mum is beautiful. Is not morning light the best especially when it starts to shine with a nice hot cup of coffee!! I must explore Jane Austen - you make me ask myself "how did I get to this age and not read about Jane Austen?" Hope you have a lovely weekend and enjoy all this beautiful season has to offer. Hugs!

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    1. Haha, I did surprise myself. I do love that morning light that streams in - goes perfectly with coffee. Thanks, Debbie, for stopping by.

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  4. Aww - such a lovely post for not having much to say! I think hot chocolate packs with cookies sounds very fun. I have two costume memories because they included a plastic mask with the little eye holes to peep out of and nose-breathing holes (quite ineffective if I remember…!): clown and princess. I love the photo of the remaining flowers from your fall bouquet! Love you! - Janet

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    1. Hi Janet, I remember those plastic masks - they were so hot and almost scary, trying to see in the dark through those little holes. xo

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  5. "Chewing your pencil" resulted in a most lovely chat, Brenda. I confess that there is a lot of chewing going on here this month with trying to come up with a daily post. It seems harder this year than most.
    I don't remember much about Halloween costumes as a child. I don't think it was a big priority for my mom and we likely pulled together something from our parents' old clothes. I do remember my mom made clown costumes for her and my father one year when I was a teenager and Tim and I wore them to a party.
    There's a big box of chips downstairs waiting for our trick or treaters - we get maybe 30 or 40. Hot chocolate packs sound like a clever idea. I love seeing the little ones in their costumes. One year a little girl showed up in a paper bag and she was tickled when I asked if she was the Paper Bag Princess, from a lovely story by Robert Munsch.

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    1. Thanks, Lorrie, I enjoyed your note very much. I agree, it's fun to see the little ones out in their cute costumes.

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  6. As usual, a most interesting "little small talk." I always enjoy your offerings. Julianna

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  7. How fortunate for us that though you had "nothing to say" you pushed through! : )
    We didn't celebrate Halloween when I was growing up and I didn't take my kids out when they were growing up. My daughter has two littles of her own now and loves dressing them up and taking them around - well, at least her daughter. Her son is just 4 months old so this is his first year to "participate". I'm still not fond of the "holiday" but I confess to loving seeing my granddaughter dressed as a little chicken when she was 6 months old. Last year she was the little girl from the movie Monsters Inc. My daughter dressed up as the "monster" - it was adorable. I'm not allowed to know the costumes she ordered for the kids this year. I"ll find out Tuesday as my mother is currently residing in a nursing home and they have "trick or treat" night this Tuesday - the workers and residents families are encouraged to bring in their children so the residents can pass out candy and enjoy the little ones.
    Anyway, as you mention what you have passed out to the children over the last few years, I was suddenly reminded of a woman I knew decades ago who made the best popcorn balls... I'm not sure anyone makes treats anymore :(
    Thank you for once again making me smile. And goodness, your posts manage to make me feel peaceful...thank you.

    God bless you and keep you,
    Carolyn

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    1. Carolyn, thank you for your lovely note. I don't think anyone makes treats to hand out. It was perfectly acceptable back in the day to hand out homemade treats, but maybe we tend to worry more about germs. It's all factory wrapped now and handed out. // Your last comment about feeling peaceful here wrapped around my heart and made me glad. Thank you!

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  8. I usually get about 20-25 trick-or-treaters. This year, I'm handing out chips instead of chocolates.

    Cookies with hot chocolate or hot apple cider packets would be welcome treats if I were a trick-or-treater.

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    1. Margie, I was gathering my trick or treat goodies today. I decided on cookies packets with hot chocolate or hot apple cider packets.

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  9. Your description of the chrysanthemums catching the sunlight made me picture the scene perfectly, and the butternut squash soup recipe sounds so comforting for this time of year.

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    1. Thank you so much, Melody, for stopping by. Appreciate your little note.

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